Whenever you are confused about why you did something, look for a “belief”.
Beliefs compel you to do what you might otherwise think is stupid.
The belief isn’t stupid. It’s just a belief.
Change the belief and you change the behavior.
Most people will have no clue that their behavior comes from their own beliefs.
They will want to blame others – the president, the economy, their family, friends, childhood, and so on.
Blame is easy. It avoids responsibility.
Recognizing that all behavior is caused by a belief will help you select better beliefs for yourself.
It will also help you understand others.
– Dr. Joe Vitale